Tuesday, October 30, 2012

"Our Babies"



    This is a switch for me, but a friend just reminded me of the welcoming of our girls, Debbie and Tracey.  Every time Frieda would have a doctor appointment she would come home fussing that the doctor got on to her for too much weight gain.  It was obvious that all her gain was baby.
  We kept telling him that we thought she was having more than one baby but he assured us that there was only her heart beat and one baby.  One evening Frieda said for me to feel her stomach.  There were definitely four bumps where they were fighting each other I believe.  The doctor still assured us only one baby.
    On the last appointment at what the doctor thought was eight months her blood pressure was out of sight so he put her in the hospital to try and get it down.  Shortly after she went into labor and her doctor told us that  a young ob/gyn from Memphis was filling in for
His partner and he was assisting.   Later they told me that there were two in the x-ray after all and the first, Tracey, was breach.  He said the young doctor was trying to turn her and he did.  They were five minutes apart and obviously full term not a month early.  They started fighting in the womb and kept it up for a time.  Oh, yes, Frieda lost about 16 pounds real fast.  I have to wonder if he did not know and did not want to excite Frieda and did he plan on the ob/gyn filling in for his partner?  No I rather think our guardian angel was looking out for us for I sure did a lot of praying when she was admitted.
    I miss the times that I did not spend with them growing up that I should have.  I missed a lot of good times.  It was fun though not knowing if we would have two girls for the weekend or have ten or twelve on pallets in the living room floor.  We still have a special love for all the kids who spent nights with us and were a part of our family and still are.
     They often went their separate way but once in college they became best friends and I am happy to say they remain best friends.
    They are hardly alike but it is uncanny, how living at least seventy miles apart, they end up wearing the same outfits.
    I am so proud of the job my wife did in raising two good, caring, Christian girls.  When they read this my name may be changed to Mudd.

Thursday, October 4, 2012

“More Explorer Scout ramblings”



  Being a member and leader in the post meant that I was expected to be an example at all times.  We often met with the Raleigh, Tn. Post to have a Dance and the Explorer Ship in Cairo, IL would join us there.  We would each stay with one of the Raleigh members.  We would alternate visits with each group taking turns as host.  I was already friends with one of the Tennessee scouts and dated his sister some so I always stayed with them.                                                                                                       One of the scouts there was the son of the CEO of Plough Inc. and he was licensed to drive.  Six of us decided to go to Mississippi and buy some fireworks.  On the way through Memphis, (you know the no noise city), we decided to throw some firecrackers out the window.  We were nearing an intersection and I did not throw a firecracker no I had to throw a cherry bomb.  It rolled and rolled, in slow motion it seemed, I spotted the patrol car it went off under, just as it got to it.  Buckman decided to try to get away and started street changing.  When the squad car was out of sight he pulled into a drive and turned off the lights and we all ducked.  In a minute or less the squad pulled in behind us.  There we were in our uniforms.  After reminding us of the scout oath and how many charges there were, if we would meet him outside the no noise city, he would help us shoot them.  Whew!  No charges but he did make us feel a bit smallish.
   When we went on our first long camping trip we made up a schedule where we would take turns.  For instance I would cook on one day and the next day it would be my turn to wash dishes.  Then I got some time off.  I really did draw cooking the first day and for breakfast I believe it was two a half dozen scrambled eggs that went to the garbage pit.  Lucky we had cereal and milk on hand.  At least we were able to eat the toast that was toasted on an open fire toaster.
   From then on it was my job to see to it that camp was set up properly with the sump and pit dug.  After that I was not allowed near food in preparation. 
   Not too many years ago my wife left me a can of soup on the stove and a pan to fix lunch while she was gone.  Inadvertently she also had a oven and microwave safe bowl on there.  I poured the soup in the glass bowl and added a can of water and placed it on a front burner of the gas cook stove.  In a few minutes it showed signs of coming to a boil so I picked up a big ladle and began to stir.  About two turns later, Boom, glass chards and soup flew from one end of the kitchen to the other.  Somehow none of it was on me.  I told her ahead of time that I was not a cook.
Our post consisted of five or six classes and I am really surprised we did not keep in touch after school.  I think we were closer than the usual class was.  Even when not at a scouting function a lot of us, from different classes, would be together.  Whenever I run into one of them it is more like seeing a favored family member than a friend.  A lot are gone now but every time I think of the scouts I remember them.  I also think of them when I pass Beulah as we spent many days planting bushes, in that area, for erosion control.
   We decided to go back to Wolf Island to camp for a week end and to see how the cottonwood seedlings, we had planted, were doing.  I think getting to cross the chute on the rope pulled ferry had a little to do with it as well.  We got more kick out of it than the ferry across the river that was diesel powered.
   On this particular trip we carried a live goat to BarBQ.   As soon as we got there we dug the pit and started the coals to start the meat early Saturday for eating Sunday.
   Before leaving Clinton we had church services with one of the local pastors.  We had a different one each trip.  On Sunday morning Phillip McClure would hold church services wherever we were.  None of us doubted he was a minister even then and a good one.  Church around a campfire with ten or fifteen teens is a moving experience and he was a big part of that.
   Sunday morning we took the goat off the spit to keep it from burning and wrapped it up to retain the heat.  We placed that near the coals.  We did not expect the canvas around the outside to keep it insulated from the heat and when we opened it for lunch we found that the ants had also found it.  We washed it and re-basted it, put it back over the coals for a while, and then ate it anyway.  May have been the unusual seasoning but it was delicious.
We kept the teen town over “Pop” Johnson`s pool room going for a long time.  There is no way to count the hours put in by our scout leaders and their wives both in scouting and the teen town.  Howard and Judy Rogers, Gene Dowdy (unmarried), Wilson Cannon and Martha, Doc and Betty Barber and J. W. Chandler (unmarried) took turns as chaperones but would be there a lot of the nights that they did not have to chaperone.  I could not dance initially and Betty and Martha could not stand that.  They were both wonderful dancers and made me meet them after school every afternoon and they taught me to dance at least a little.  During the classes I always talked them into doing the jitterbug for me and they were fantastic jitterbug dancers.